Comments on: Four Magic Words For Helping Those You Love De-stress https://escapeadulthood.com/blog/2011-09-14/four-magic-words-for-helping-those-you-love-de-stress.html Mon, 26 Mar 2012 20:14:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.5 By: Judy https://escapeadulthood.com/blog/2011-09-14/four-magic-words-for-helping-those-you-love-de-stress.html/comment-page-1#comment-349292 Mon, 14 Nov 2011 21:48:31 +0000 http://kimandjason.com/blog/?p=14129#comment-349292 Such simple and yet powerful advice. Love it, Kim. That question is at the core of empathy, isn’t it? Love that you were able to personally experience the power, love and release of being asked that question, too.

]]> By: Becca https://escapeadulthood.com/blog/2011-09-14/four-magic-words-for-helping-those-you-love-de-stress.html/comment-page-1#comment-349209 Sat, 12 Nov 2011 18:25:39 +0000 http://kimandjason.com/blog/?p=14129#comment-349209 In reply to cheap kitchen doors.

Haha, glad i am not the only one who did this to my poor midwives….i thought it was strange that evry appt turned into a brain dump…it just all came out. Excellent advice!

]]> By: cheap kitchen doors https://escapeadulthood.com/blog/2011-09-14/four-magic-words-for-helping-those-you-love-de-stress.html/comment-page-1#comment-348435 Fri, 21 Oct 2011 19:04:31 +0000 http://kimandjason.com/blog/?p=14129#comment-348435 Low-priced kitchen area Doors at incredible rates

]]> By: Larissa https://escapeadulthood.com/blog/2011-09-14/four-magic-words-for-helping-those-you-love-de-stress.html/comment-page-1#comment-347577 Wed, 05 Oct 2011 14:58:54 +0000 http://kimandjason.com/blog/?p=14129#comment-347577 My ObGyn also validated and took his time in addressing my concerns, and he always asked “Nada más? Segura?” (Nothing else? Are you sure? in Spanish) and it felt good to be heard and taken care of, and my two deliveries with him were natural and excellent experiences, but I just had a nurse in our local Child Development Center ask me “Qué te preocupa Mamá?” (literally: What worries you Mom? i.e., What is on your mind Mom?) and Oh! the difference! Maybe it is a female kinship or affinity, can’t explain!

]]> By: Alan https://escapeadulthood.com/blog/2011-09-14/four-magic-words-for-helping-those-you-love-de-stress.html/comment-page-1#comment-346980 Sat, 17 Sep 2011 00:14:23 +0000 http://kimandjason.com/blog/?p=14129#comment-346980 Lynn linked me to this blog–great post!

This is something I always really appreciated about midwife appointments. My wife ended up getting transported, at the suggestion of the midwife, and having a c-section after a long labour; but we were still so glad we had the previous months’ prenatal care instead of the kind of appointments you get with an OB (something I had experienced with my ex-wife). And in contrast to the experience Katie had with her midwife, ours stuck around, came back for postnatal baby checkups, etc.

]]> By: Katie https://escapeadulthood.com/blog/2011-09-14/four-magic-words-for-helping-those-you-love-de-stress.html/comment-page-1#comment-346931 Wed, 14 Sep 2011 21:19:07 +0000 http://kimandjason.com/blog/?p=14129#comment-346931 I’m so glad you have a wonderful Midwife. We tried with our first and found out later she wasn’t as “helpful” as I’d have hoped, after it just not working in our favor and an emergency c-section she had never even bothered to check back in with us after she had to leave the hospital room when she went in with us when we started to have disturbing problems. Cherish it, talk for hours with her – it’s what she’s there for and no matter how much a baby tummy bothers you do a cast, pictures or a mold of some sort. Now that I’ve had my two and am sure I won’t be doing it again (unless insane baby wants happen) I wished I wouldn’t have been so embarassed by my tummy and had the memories of it all in photos.

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