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Hooked on Love: Seeing Loved Ones with New Ears

The other day I was minding my own business, and I was reminded of a song from my college years. I came across a video of the performance of the song "Hook" by Blues Traveler. It had been a long time since I heard the song, but it was a gift to hear it with new ears.  John Popper made that harmonica do things I didn't think harmonicas could do. I always liked that song, but I remember souring on Blues Traveler pretty hard because, for a time in the nineties, every speaker in every store and every corner of the world was playing one of their songs. It turns out that …

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No is a Gift, Not a Monster

"NO" is a monster that frightens many of us. It's so intimidating that we'll forfeit the chance of getting something awesome because the mere chance of hearing "No" keeps us from even asking. Granted, no one likes to be turned down for a job, a date, or entry to a school we hoped to attend. But No doesn't have to be the enemy we think it is. Our team once worked with a sales consultant who helped us to see the value in a No. She conceded that because No is so powerful, prospects are afraid to say it, so they offer up a maybe instead, which she warned is worse than a No. "No is a …

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