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- - - | written by Jason on 12/5/2023 | - - -

Top 12 Adultitis-Free Gifts for Everyone On Your List

"Really?" you might be wondering. "For everyone on my list?" Look, one can never be one hundred percent certain about anything (except that "All I Want for Christmas" by Mariah Carey is always playing somewhere), but we're pretty confident that you'll be able to check the hardest to shop for off your list. At the very least, you'll come away with a handful of unique things you won't be able to find on that one site that starts with an "A" and ends with "mazon." (Yes, we know some of our books are sold there, but let's not start getting technical now.) Below are 12 …

- - - | written by Jason on 12/3/2023 | - - -

The Day I Accidentally Murdered My Bucket List

My Bucket List is dead, and I was the one who killed it. I didn't mean to do it...it just sort of happened. I was reviewing what went well this year and what didn't while on a personal retreat a few days before Thanksgiving. As usual, the inventory of highlights was way longer. It contained projects we completed, trips we took, improvements we made to the house, and accomplishments our kids achieved. Many were planned, but a significant number of the entries were unplanned opportunities and unexpected blessings. If you think about it, that's how much of life is. Many of our biggest …

- - - | written by Jason on 11/27/2023 | - - -

Dr. George Bullard, November 2023 Adultitis Fighter of the Month

An Adultitis Fighter is someone who rallies against rules that don't exist and engages in ruthless, senseless acts of silliness that undermine Adultitis and its unadventurous version of adulthood. Once a month, we shine a light upon the most remarkable among us, holding them up as a dazzling example of what we should strive for in this epic battle against a formidable enemy. This month's worthy recipient of this prestigious honor is Dr. George Bullard! In recognition of their efforts, Adultitis Fighters of the Month receive a special limited edition print created by Jason, along with a …

- - - | written by Jason on 11/19/2023 | - - -

How to Fix the Whole World

The current state of the world is...not great. So many of our problems are global, governmental, and systemic, stemming from conflicts spanning thousands of years. Perhaps, like me, you wonder, "What the heck can one person do?" When I am overwhelmed by an avalanche of things I can’t control, I find it helpful to focus on what I can. And then I came across this quote from St. Teresa of Calcutta: "If you want to bring happiness to the whole world, go home and love your family." Ah, good ol' Mother Teresa. What a pleasant thought from a sweet old lady beloved the world over. …

- - - | written by Jason on 11/12/2023 | - - -

When to Be a Houseplant

Sometimes you just need to be a houseplant. This statement was shared by Shannon, a friend who had finally emerged from a hard season filled with challenging health issues. They often left her feeling depleted, without the energy to do much of anything. And so she gave herself permission to to be a houseplant. I laughed at the metaphor, calling to mind the times I've sunk deep into the couch and slipped into a vegetative stage. But she went on to note that although houseplants are stationary and require help from others to stay alive, they aren't doing nothing. They are very much …

- - - | written by Jason on 11/5/2023 | - - -

Pay Attention To What You Pay Attention To

This just in: The world is a dumpster fire. 🔥 When we left for a recent trip to Hawaii, I made the decision to unplug. I'd monitor my business email every other day or so, but detach completely from following the news and my social media feeds. It was awesome. I felt present. My heartbeat slowed and my anxiety melted. It was so glorious, that I maintained the distance even after returning home. Oh, I've snuck a peek, but it's like opening an unmarked door to reveal a gigantic infinity room filled with fires, explosions, kung fu fights, screaming chimps throwing poop at evil …

- - - | written by Jason on 11/2/2023 | - - -

Wondernite 2023 Photos

2023 marked the first time Wondernite was held in Sheboygan, Wisconsin. It was another sold-out affair, and the largest crowd yet. It was also the first time Kim joined Jason in sharing work, as she told the powerful stories behind three of her photographs. Here is an album of photos from the magical evening... …

- - - | written by Jason on 10/31/2023 | - - -

Halloween Spooktacular | Escape Adulthood LIVE #113

On this month’s show, we’re hosting a virtual Halloween costume party, talking about the worst trick-or-treat candy, and discussing how to handle the subconscious fears that haunt us in new situations. Hang out with Kim & Jason Kotecki as they inspire, entertain, and encourage you in your fight against Adultitis. If you attend live, you’ll be able to see and chat with fellow Adultitis Fighters, have the chance to ask questions, and win epic prizes! ☕️ 🍺 🍷 🎥 New episodes every month: https://www.escapeadulthood.me🚨Get notified when new shows go live & replays are available here.🔗 …

- - - | written by Jason on 10/29/2023 | - - -

All Masterpieces Begin with Chunky Crayons

Imagine a young child proudly showing you a drawing she made. Using a handful of stubby crayons, you can make out what appear to be some trees, although they look more like wobbly circles sitting on top of crooked brown rectangles. There are some figures in the scene, too, but it's hard to tell exactly who they are supposed to be. Now imagine yourself rolling your eyes as you criticize the drawing, pointing out the clichéd subject matter, the sloppy scribbles, and the unrealistic use of color. You matter-of-factly declare that it's just terrible—probably the worst drawing you've ever …

- - - | written by Jason on 10/25/2023 | - - -

Corinne Hanson, October 2023 Adultitis Fighter of the Month

An Adultitis Fighter is someone who rallies against rules that don't exist and engages in ruthless, senseless acts of silliness that undermine Adultitis and its unadventurous version of adulthood. Once a month, we shine a light upon the most remarkable among us, holding them up as a dazzling example of what we should strive for in this epic battle against a formidable enemy. This month's worthy recipient of this prestigious honor is Corinne Hanson! In recognition of their efforts, Adultitis Fighters of the Month receive a special limited edition print created by Jason, along with a …