The gauntlet had been thrown down. What choice did I have? We were on a road trip...somewhere. The details don't matter, but I'm pretty sure we were rolling up to Dairy Queen for some Blizzards. Someone in my family, probably my wife, challenged me to request extra "nipkins" at the drive-thru window. Not napkins, NIPkins. And with that, my honor was on the line. I could not allow myself to be shamed in front of my own children by failing to accept this summons. On that day, I am proud to say, I rose to the challenge, growing three feet taller in the eyes of my wife and children …
Festival of Shenanigans | Escape Adulthood LIVE #117
On this show, we’re celebrating the fifth anniversary of the show and kicking off the first-ever Festival Shenanigans, the silliest 17 days you ever did see! Hang out with Kim & Jason Kotecki as they inspire, entertain, and encourage you in your fight against Adultitis. If you attend live, you’ll be able to see and chat with fellow Adultitis Fighters, have the chance to ask questions, and win epic prizes! ☕️ 🍺 🍷 🎥 New episodes: https://www.escapeadulthood.me🚨Get notified when new shows go live & replays are available here.🔗 LINKS FROM THIS SHOW: …
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Caught Not Taught
Teaching is overrated. Oh, did that get your attention? Good. Now let me tell you what I mean. As parents who homeschool, Kim and I have thought a lot about our role as teachers. And I've been fortunate to speak to thousands of educators over the years, encouraging them in a job that's become more difficult with each passing year. I don't think that teachers are overrated, just one particular part of their job. The teaching part. I've made many observations over many years as a homeschooling parent. It's clear to me that kids have no trouble learning. It's a built-in feature. …
In Pursuit of Greatness
Ron Swanson, Timothée Chalamet, and my dad walked into a bar. Out came this article. Let's start with Mr. Chalamet, the brilliant young actor who received a Screen Actors Guild award for his portrayal of Bob Dylan in A Complete Unknown. His acceptance speech caused a stir, not because it was controversial, but because it was so uncommon: "I know the classiest thing would be to downplay the effort that went into this role and how much this means to me, but the truth is this was five years of my life. I poured everything I had into playing this incomparable artist, Mr. …
Expectations Are the Thief of Peace
Recently, I had a wonderful, tremendously productive day that felt like a failure thanks to one crucial mistake. It's a mistake you and I make all the time. I'll start by saying I find it incredibly helpful to plan my day the night before. As I've gotten older, my approach has gotten wiser. Rather than trying to squeeze everything into unbending blocks of time, experience has taught me to build in breathing room for the inevitable swerves that arise. Still, some days never have enough breathing room. On this particular day, one project took waaaay longer than I expected, …
Hooked on Love: Seeing Loved Ones with New Ears
The other day I was minding my own business, and I was reminded of a song from my college years. I came across a video of the performance of the song "Hook" by Blues Traveler. It had been a long time since I heard the song, but it was a gift to hear it with new ears. John Popper made that harmonica do things I didn't think harmonicas could do. I always liked that song, but I remember souring on Blues Traveler pretty hard because, for a time in the nineties, every speaker in every store and every corner of the world was playing one of their songs. It turns out that …
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No is a Gift, Not a Monster
"NO" is a monster that frightens many of us. It's so intimidating that we'll forfeit the chance of getting something awesome because the mere chance of hearing "No" keeps us from even asking. Granted, no one likes to be turned down for a job, a date, or entry to a school we hoped to attend. But No doesn't have to be the enemy we think it is. Our team once worked with a sales consultant who helped us to see the value in a No. She conceded that because No is so powerful, prospects are afraid to say it, so they offer up a maybe instead, which she warned is worse than a No. "No is a …
The Prepper
When my wife told me she was pregnant with our first child, my heart filled with joy. Two seconds later, panic arrived at the party. All I could think about was how profoundly our lives were about to change and I didn't have the slightest idea of how to prepare. I immediately began searching Amazon for the latest owner's manual for babies. Kim, on the other hand, seemed to calmly slide into the nesting phase that's common to many moms in the animal kingdom. In preparation for a new life, they instinctually work to create conditions for that new life to thrive. In the years since …
My Dumb Resumé
The whole reason Kim and I started our own business was so that we would never have to write resumés. Ok, maybe not the whole reason. But it's at least 79 percent. Kim recently took one for the team when she was required to write our resumés for an organization that wanted to hire us to speak. The funds were coming from grant money and apparently, a resumé would make it more likely we'd get the job. She was, let's say, less than thrilled about having to do it. I'm just glad she did it because I would have refused and we wouldn't have gotten the gig. To be honest, I'm not sure if we …
One Piece at a Time
The time between Christmas and the New Year is Puzzle Season in our household. (Except for my wife, who is not the least bit interested in them, but is eager to take advantage of the fact that we are all distracted.) Me and the kids usually enjoy the 1000-piece varieties but hate the unnecessarily hard ones. (All double-sided puzzles, or those made entirely of pieces that are mostly one color, should be rounded up and incinerated.) Our biggest accomplishment thus far was a 3,000-piece behemoth that featured Peanuts characters. At first I thought, "This is totally …