We finally made it to Victoria in British Columbia after hearing about it from so many travelers who spoke of it with stars in their eyes. Kim and I have always had a thing for the Pacific Northwest, but between the mountain views, the ocean air, and the old British charm, it didn’t disappoint.
When we were preparing to board the ferry to return to the States, the customs officer seemed genuinely shocked to hear from us that people referred to it as a magical place.
“Huh,” he shrugged. “I don’t know about that.”
I was surprised by his response, and a little saddened. I suppose I shouldn’t have been. It’s easy to take for granted the things that are familiar to us.
So who is right? The people who see Victoria as a magical place? Or the officer who sees nothing out of the ordinary?
I’d say they both are.
The truth is that so much of what we get out of life depends on our perspective. Of course, that perspective may spring forth from our circumstance, but we always have the option of changing it, if we’d like.
After twenty years of marriage, we can keep an eye out for all the flaws, imperfections, and annoying habits of the person we chose to spend our life with. Or we can notice the strengths that he or she brings to the relationship, and the endearing idiosyncrasies that we fell in love with.
Likewise, you can keep track of all the things you despise about your job, or choose to focus on the parts you enjoy and the good things that come from having it.
The world around you can seem ordinary, boring and filled with problems. But at the same time, magic is everywhere.
Seeing it is a choice.
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Courtney N Kloehn says
6/4/2018 at 3:23 pmOur family goes to Disney World every-other year. It is our magical place. I have friends, family, and colleagues who ask how I can stand Disney World, all they see is materialism and crowds. You are so right, it is all in the perspective. They see the crowds and expensive merchandise, and I see the twinkling lights of the castle shining in the mesmerized look in my sons’ eyes. Disney to me is magic, to them is chaos – perspective – it is what we make it.
Jason says
6/4/2018 at 5:47 pmWe love Disney World, too, and that’s a great example, Courtney!
Dan says
7/1/2018 at 12:12 pmI was stuck in traffic because they were repaving the road. But, it was fun to watch the workers and machines! The first pair ground down the road several inches, then a big street sweeper cleaned up after it. Next was one that laid out the hot asphalt (the whole lane at once!), and finally the big “steam rollers” to finish it all off. All of this happening in the next lane over. It was much more fun to think of it as an industrial parade than an annoying traffic jam.